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Do Not Repeat These Things Seen In Porn

Many people enjoy watching porn, as these videos often feature what we do not meet in real life often. In addition to people of beautiful or exotic appearance, and glamorous settings, modern porn movies show a lot of unusual or exotic poses and activities.

Users watching these movies because they offer dynamic development of the plot, give food for thought and impress the imagination. However, one should remember that in 99% of cases the video is totally staged, there are a lot of staff members that assist and that the porn performers, almost like professional stuntmen, get ready for such action. For them, this is work, and they work hard, both physically and emotionally. But for average people, sex is usually relaxation and pleasure, not hard work, so do not expect your sex partners to be excited about repeating a cool trick you saw in a movie.

People expect sex to give them relaxation and pleasure. The majority of people do not consider it an activity to which they have to prepare like for Olympic Games, and when you offer your lover to repeat a marathon-like night with tricks, poses, and stunts featured in your favorite adult movie, chances are they will not be amused.

Another aspect that should be taken into consideration is that in sex videos, actors are acting. Of course, they can and should get a certain pleasure from their job, but again, in the majority of cases, they just tolerate inconvenient poses and interactions they personally do not like in bed, for the sake of the movie.

Remember that when filming, the most comfortable pose for actors is the worst one for a good shot. The cameraman wants to see all the private parts in detail, which means the actors should be as distanced from each other as possible, showing all the details of the process. In real life, the opposite is felt pleasant – when the partners are as close to each other as possible, touching each other with their whole bodies. This example, hopefully, gives an insight into the difference between sex movie and sex in real life.

The bottom line is as follows. It is always better to do what you and your sex partner feel pleasant; if it does not feel pleasant or arousing, or satisfying, do not feel surprised. Even if you saw this in the best adult movie filmed by the best porn studio featuring the best actors, you or your partner are not obliged to feel great about this activity.

And also do not be surprised about your sex partner being reluctant to repeat gymnastic gimmicks from the porn movies. This is because instead of relaxing and pleasurable experience you offer something they may not be physically ready to. So talk to your lover and agree on what you want to try and what you don’t.

Porn As Realization Of Secret Sex Fantasies

Sex fantasies are what most people have and yet most people keep secret. Despite the widespread opinion, sexual fantasies are not obligatorily connected to some sort of taboo sex or activities. In the majority of cases, people use fantasies as an escape from reality, and variety is the main goal they want to achieve in their mind.

It is very hard to achieve variety in sex life since it takes efforts and the ability to get many different sex partners on a regular basis. Unless a person owns their own harem, in practice variety on a regular basis is almost impossible. Of course, there are pickupers who specialize in luring their sex partners and increases the number of partners each week. But for this, one has to master certain skills, have a wide social circle, and devote a lot of time and also money to find girls (or boys), to lure and impress them, to have attractive looks, etc.

The majority of people have no time and opportunity to meet the need for sexual variety. They either live in the area where the social circle is not that big, or where everyone knows everyone or simply there are not many people of appropriate age and position in their place. Others have more interesting and important things to do, like job, career, hobby, or sports, and instead of running around looking for a new sex partner, they devote their efforts to other activities.

Yet, the need for variety and bright sex life remains, and people have fantasies. These are most often pretty innocent, like having sex with two blondes at the same time, etc. And here is where porn content becomes helpful in realizing those fantasies at least in some way.

If you check the categories on the majority of adult resources, they are very conventional, mostly stating the skin or hair color, a number of participants in the intercourse, or something like this. Such videos enjoy crazy popularity, in fact, they are the most requested and searched for. This gives a good insight into what people are fantasizing about.

It also gives a good insight into how much porn is useful in releasing sexual pressure and realizing secret or hidden fantasies. One does not need to think for a plot of the fantasy, does not have to focus and imagine. Everything has already been done and filmed. One only has to choose the video on the website, often free of charge, and see what he is used to seeing only in his head, enjoying each moment.

Taboo Porn Genres

Adult sex videos are shot within different genres and categories. This is done, obviously, to provide more pleasure to a more narrow audience, and help the users on adult platforms with their search requests. While there are tons of different genres, and the users have a huge choice, there are some categories that are forbidden.

We are not talking about these prudish rules like “a woman must not be on top”, lol. The majority of websites support a lot of variations, without almost no limitations. Different skin colors, ages, orientations, activities are welcome and legal to make sex movies with, and the audience is free to watch.

Globally Banned

There are some genres that are globally forbidden, though, and every user is strongly advised not to watch them, and report resources that contain those. These global taboo genres include child and teenage porn, sex with animals, sex with dead people (or animals), killing during intercourse (even if this is staged), crippling or severely harming anybody during intercourse (even if staged or consent is given), and several other genres.

If you are not sure if this or that fetish falls under taboo genre or not, use the following simple rules:

  • No one should be killed during intercourse on the video;
  • No one should be crippled or severely physically harmed;
  • Those who cannot give consent should not be participating (dead bodies, animals, disabled, etc.);
  • Those who are not legally considered as able to give clear consent (children, disabled, etc.);
  • Even if clear consent of the participants is given, or the video is staged, the content including killing or physical damage is still banned.

Those who make such content or look for it should contact an expert.

Fun fact – in North Korea, pornography is banned as such, any type of it. The punishment for making, watching, or keeping any type of pornography is a death sentence.

Locally Banned

Some countries are okay with making and watching sex videos, however, they ban certain things in porn to make sure this industry does not hurt anyone and does not violate anyone’s rights. Firstly, they support a ban on the globally tabooed genres.

Secondly, there are activities in intercourse that should be avoided to keep porn legal. For example, according to the recent UK law, the following things should not be filmed:

  • spanking;
  • canning;
  • aggressive whipping;
  • penetration by any object, associated with violence;
  • physical or verbal abuse;
  • urolagnia;
  • pretending non-adults;
  • humiliation;
  • female ejaculation;
  • strangulation;
  • facesitting;
  • fisting.

UK authorities state that they want to make porn less violent and prevent it from causing violent behavior. Also, the viewers are not subject to punishment if watching such content. It is the makers and the platforms hosting such content who will be legally punished. However, in different countries, rules can differ.